You’ll Never Get A Girlfriend If You Do Any Of These Three Things

You may have heard me speak on the radio or read about me in the papers. I don't often give away free information, so listen closely. It's extremely easy for you to become 15 times more attractive instantly. It's not what you do, but what you DON'T do that you need to pay attention to. Avoid these and become more attractive instantly.

Mistake 1: Being Her Therapist
Girls sort guys into four categories:
- Long term relationship (husband material)
- Short term relationship (Few weeks, summer flings, one night stands.)
- Friend / Jokester (The guy she goes to when she wants to be entertained)
- Therapist (The guy she goes to when she is having a bad day)
By being a therapist, listening to her problems, and trying to "comfort her", you fall into the "therapist" class. Now I'm not saying that you shouldn't listen to her, but there are certain topics that shouldn't be talked about. Ex-boyfriends and the time that you got beat up by your little sister (DLV) are two of them. Many guys play the therapist cards but don't play their attraction cards. Therapy doesn't attract a girl, but it could make you her friend. If you notice, many good looking girls go for the "bad guy." You can be sure that this guy doesn't listen to her problems.

Mistake 2: Buying her things
Many guys seem to think that buying girls things will get her to like them. Buying a girl something, especially before you are seeing her, is a big mistake. What it shows is that you are not confident and think that you need "things" to attract her. What she wants to know is that you have confidence in yourself and that you believe your personality will attract her. I rarely spend more than $10 before I sleep with a girl, and that's if i'm feeling really generous. You don't need to use money as an attraction tool.

Mistake 3: Being too submissive
CONTROL - it's a loaded word. Girls want a guy that is in control of himself, his future, his situation, and her. Girls don't want to be able to control you. "The last thing that I want is a guy that I can control. A guy that I can control doesn't have a chance with me." This is one of the most common statements that I hear. The key to attracting a good-looking girl is to be different than the other 99% of guys. If you are the same as everyone else, why would she want you? She wants a guy that challenges her and doesn't show too much interest. Guys often think, "If we don't do what she wants, then she wont like me!" In reality, doing what she wants shows her that you are not boyfriend material - you are just like everyone else.

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